In my unconscious criticism (happens instantaneously), there is a longing that nobody will be this critical when I say something, but because they dare and say something, I must criticize them, or there would make no sense for me to not say something. By criticizing them, I validate my own fear of speaking out. How dreadful. Blessed to see this clearly, I can change my automatic pattern of condemning others, so as to free myself as well.
What Matters. 